No Home Like Place

‘No Home Like Place’ is the title of a group show at Marts in Murwillumbah of which I am part of. Our group statement says, ‘We are seven local artists from widely differing backgrounds and experiences who explore what the notion of ‘home’ means to us, from the geographical idea of place and the physicality of objects to the psychological and the intimate.’

A few days after the show opened, the gallery closed its doors due to the corona virus. One of the many small, big, bigger and huge events that were cancelled.

I’d like to share my art piece and artist statement ….and give our exhibition a bit of an airing. It must be a bit stuffy in that room by now. 

Heimat 1:100000
I grew up on a farm in a village in Germany. My culture was very bonded to place and region, its customs and language. There is a name for that in German – Heimat, which means homeland. It evokes the ideas of love, loyalty and attachment to place, and denotes a kind of idyllic world that offers identity and safety. Its loss is unfathomable and brings misery and homesickness. 

The twists and turns of the notion of home have pre-occupied me ever since I came to live in Australia 37 years ago at the age of 26. I felt hopelessly entangled with the word home. There are so many conflicting feelings about the loss of home, the longing for a place to call home and the vulnerabilities of not feeling at home.

It seems to me that I had taken up my ancestors’ sense of belonging from my mother through the umbilical cord. It was still alive in me, still pulsing and calling me back. My home and my mother are 17,000kms away. This artwork is 170m long, which represents the 17,000kms scaled 1:100,000. I started making the work while visiting my family in Germany last year, and I finished it here in Australia. 

Here is a video of the exhibition:

Loving the World

The article below is by Jaya Ashmore. It arrived in my inbox this morning and I had the urge to share it on this blog. I met Jaya in India twenty six years ago. Since then she has become a meditation teacher with her own flavour and flair.

The artwork is mine. Small images on matchboxes, presently tucked away in a little suitcase, resting.

Is Loving the World Good for the World?

What if liking the world is good for it?

What if letting our hearts open—in direct connection with nature—helps nature?
It may not be the only thing that helps, but is there any one and only thing that helps.

Appreciation and gratitude are good for us—encouraging health and happiness in human beings.


Perhaps—life is mysterious, after all—perhaps our kind attention is also just what the world needs.

It also helps us disentangle from, and disobey, a culture of “using.”
Drenched with a sunset or the scent of jasmine, we overturn the current worldview of lack and the need to earn pleasure and a place in the world. Simple pleasure, freely available and boundless, is radical.

It also helps lower our “alarm system.”

Doing only what we can do for the earth when we are alarmed—it’s not working out so well. Reading the research on climate change is important. But so far, it’s not enough to get us really moving. And sometimes being overwhelmed by predictions stops us from moving.

If we’re willing to do whatever is needed:
What about a more demanding practice, of ease? A practice of coming out of alarm, into connection, even when the situation is alarming. Or connecting to what feels enough and okay, already now, even when our internal alarm system is on high. That is hard practice.

Awe, gratitude and appreciation open us. Open is what we need to be, and what we are. What is.
Open leaves room for love, and grief, and life.
Keenly receptive yet relaxed, we find our own sensitivity no longer works against us. We may even start to have a few good ideas, instead of a million busy ones.
When the simple, unearnable and unownable pleasures of life meet our utter sensitivity—maybe some of that goodness spills over to what no longer feels like a separate world.


And then…maybe it’s possible to leap to a different kind of living and acting from love.

Not because somebody
told you to.

Not because you should.

Not even because it’s a good idea.

Here, there are parakeets—
They are lemon green, their calls
grating the air
from forty feet up.

Birds who 

have never seen a cage.

~Jaya, Sattal, 3 April, 2019


The Making Waters

The Making Waters

My diary entry today finished with, ‘I do love steering my little boat into the making waters, day by day’.

The image of a boat is both a soothing and unsettling metaphor. The lonely boat out in the big open sea—fear of the unknown, of failing, of crashing and not surviving. The soothing part is that there is a boat that can take me somewhere, somewhere new. It always means a journey, a voyage to an unknown place. It means leaving the familiar behind and being carried into unfamiliar waters.

I’ve been part of a small group of women who meet to paint or draw ‘en plein air’. Our usual place is a small beach—a pebble beach with black rocks sticking out of the sea framed by two headlands. We sit under a Pandanus tree where each one engages with the place in her own way. I am mostly pre-occupied with the black rocks and the little bits and pieces of debris lying around that are bleached by the sun; shells, sponges, rocks, leaves, bits of seaweed. I notice the detail in what is decaying and discarded, that are still hosts to tiny life forms which pattern and adorn them. Wind, air and water caress them until they morph into the ground.

Most of all I just like being there. Every time is different. Once we set a date it is a commitment, even when the weather turns and we just stand and marvel at ‘our wild beach’ and scramble up the nearest headland.

At the beginning of this year, after a very high tide, the pebble beach was swept clean of all this sweet debris and leafy matter. Only the rocks and pebbles remained and they were clicking and clacking as the waves sucked them in and pushed them back. It sounded like talking and chattering. The sea giveth and the sea taketh, I thought.

It was windy that time and we just tried to hold onto our drawing paper. Just being there and partaking was exhilarating though. It was good to be out and about in the weather. It was good to be with others interested in art-making and supportive of each other in this endeavour—our shared need to make art.

These outings have been a good balance to pottering alone in my studio and in my own head.

Some ‘makings’ are emerging from my tentative beginnings with rough hemp thread, the colour white, muslin and my inspirational assortment of weathered bits of nature and debris. My pre-occupation as always is with process—this time with ageing, fading, impermanence and absence, how little remains.

Last Thursday at pebble beach a little boat drifted by—someone’s fishing vessel, travelling gently upon the sea.

Gardenia Season


SOLD, written large
on the First National Real Estate sign
our neighbours of 23 years moving

Sharp knocking on the veranda
I gently move the curtain
startled Wonga Pigeons scatter

Tuesday evening, dusk
in my room
two lights lit

Rain in the night
cool morning
steamy day
sheltering indoors

From the kitchen window
I pursue the white gardenia flowers
for my bliss

Today gardenia flowers are pure white
Tomorrow yellow, the next day brown
then shrivelled and gone

Across the pathway
the pink hydrangea flowers on and on
—the whole of the summer

Noisy Miner sticking its beak
deep into the blue-purple agapanthus
and deeper still …. off again

A friendly wave across the yard
from my neighbour,
He is showing the international removalist
all that they are going to take—to Japan


It is also the season for our little poetry group to meet in Jane’s cabin to read poetry… and learn some of the craft.
Thank you Jane, and thank you other Jane for giving me lifts in your all-wheel drive up that steep hill.

Wishing you all a happy and peaceful Festive Season.


Still Life with Teapot

As Iris Murdoch noted, ‘One of the secrets of a happy life is a series of continuous small treats’. When I read that quote yesterday I immediately made a list of my own small treats:

A mug (no handles) with hot tea, milk and a little sugar; the warmth seeping through my hands into my body; Azaleas in bloom in the garden (right now); more Azaleas in bloom; Azaleas in bloom all day; seeing the moon in the sky; having left-overs to heat up for lunch; walking on beaches; choosing which beach to walk on today; able to stay in bed when a little sick (as now); personal emails from family and friends; books from the library; reserving library books for $2 each; picking said book up and settling in for a treat, an adventure, a mind-opening ride to anywhere; finding life’s movements aligned with my wishes (finding that more of the time); receiving and accepting invitations; moments when life opens as an invitation (not a battle to the top or a falling through the bottom); bird calls; first Jasmine flowers and scent in spring; a touch of sadness here and there; sitting in the dark with only candle light; other’s happiness; moon bathing; buying the deepest red Geraniums in a pot (when I find them); walking to my studio; entering and starting work (fiddling); seeing photos of my grandson; the freshness after a house clean/tidy; the smell of baking; a little cake with lots of cream; the bitter taste of dandelion tea; toast with butter, honey and tahini; words like ‘wild mushrooms’ (any foods that have the word wild in it); the words wilderness and heath; fresh sheets on my bed (high cotton count); any views of distant hills or mountains, wooded, or unwooded (preferably with snow on them); Nasturtiums everywhere; all flowers that appear out of the ground when the season comes upon them; walking through meadows in the village I come from (for real or imagined); wearing pj’s at 6.00 pm (unplugged completely); the sound of crickets on summer nights; the view of the moon through my bedroom window; sitting in bed writing this…… and best of all treats— friends and friendships.

The Iris Murdoch quote came from a book called ‘Still Life with Teapot – on Zen, writing and creativity’ by Brigid Lowry. She was inspired by the ‘Pillow Book’ which is a collection of essays, lists, anecdotes, poems and descriptive passages by Sei Shōnagan in Heian Japan in 990-1000AD. She was one of the court ladies to the Empress. Her now famous book of observations and musings have little connection to one another other than what the author was thinking in any given moment in her daily life.

Brigid has created a Pillow Book of these times about a woman my age. Hers is intimate, surprising and wherever her mind wanders or rests, I easily went along. It was like a pleasant amble through all sorts of terrains and filled with yummy, sweet, sour and bitter-sweet observations.

A friend gifted me this book, just like that (it wasn’t my birthday). Come to think of it, that is another delicious, small treat — being given gifts out of the blue.

I did enjoy the book very much or let’s say, it grew on me. My first reaction was, ‘too sweet’. Be aware of first impressions. I could start a list with ‘Be aware of…’.

Maybe next time.

Process is Bliss

Since my exhibition in October last year I haven’t made any new work. I have had a break, been writing, travelling and working in the garden.

Recently I gave a short presentation about my art-practice at an informal artist’s meeting. Here is what I said:

“In order to prepare myself for this talk I looked through one of my journals and there I read, ‘Process is bliss—my manifesto is bliss.’ I had written that eight months ago. That must have been a good morning, a good session.

Process, for me includes journalling, reflecting, reading, writing, visual explorations and meeting friends to talk art and life.

It hasn’t always been that way. My focus used to be much narrower—to make desirable objects and sell them. During those times I had been driving myself. My body and mind paid for that excess. I ended up with a frozen shoulder, inflammation down one arm and repetitive strain injury in my elbows. Some of the symptoms stayed and others return if I overwork. It was necessary for me to find better and more sustainable ways of doing things.

Over time, and with some soul-searching, I changed from this goal focused drive to one that lives for process—for the inner exploration of conditions, connections and resonances.

In this way of working materials are secondary—whatever is readily available and turns up is welcomed. I don’t plan much but follow ‘prompts’, even if they seem silly and frilly. I find that they will be useful in surprising ways. It feels like playtime and I am happy.

The subject matter that I get drawn to might not be obviously blissful. I have been drawn to memoir, reflections on death, impermanence and loss.  I seem to start with some mental and emotional preoccupations and these get lighter and more flexible as I go. That is thanks to the making process which is physical, and in the present moment.

The doing and applying has its own logic. Going to the studio is both playful and a place of hard knocks, of doubt and feeling lost. I soften these difficult places by working on many things at the same time and working for shorter periods. When the old goal focussed driver tries to get back in the seat I tell him (it is a him) that I value my time in the workshop as constructive and enjoyable in itself—independent of outcomes.

I have a regular meditation practice and one of the instructions is to hold the three qualities of kindness, permission and interest. They have been good company on the cushion, in my art-practice and in daily life.“

Writing about process has made me determined to start my studio practice again. It has inspired me to make a date with myself in the studio—to show up— and see what can happen in that space.

From Down Under

Winter Solstice

I saw your hazy moon
through half shut eyes
the morning clear, high
clouds, light breeze
you are here

Solstice, shortest day of
the year, temple of light
I worship thee
escape from the inner
and outer darkness

Rest here!
Someone whispers
But how?

Lie down on the dark
pelts of your desires, fears,
uncertainties, terrors even
Rest. They are your
solicitous friends

Stroke their care-worn faces
their tired hands
soothe them as best as you can
in that kind wintry light

Rest here.

Our Common Ground

When I started painting ten years ago my subject matter arose from childhood memories, feelings and moods. Painting seemed to be another mode in my search for connection. This personal access route felt authentic and the felt sense of recognising core themes was soothing and healing.

The process of bringing these works to completion was often slow and involved many changes. My feelings would change along the way… and as the painting resolved, parts of me resolved as well. As the images got richer and more balanced— on board and canvas— so did I.

On one of my visits back to my mother in my childhood home I photographed the image above of a gnarly branch on a very old apple tree in bloom. I had borrowed my brother’s SLR camera and had bought a black and white film. It was late March and I walked across familiar tracks and little roads with this camera. I took photos of the gentle and ordinary landscapes and landmarks that I had grown up with. I clicked away, a whole roll of images of little sandstone walls, windows, bridges, fields, apple trees, rows of poplars and other ordinary sights.

The images when developed were rather disappointing. They were not black and white but grey with little contrast.

Years later, in my workshop, I ‘treated’ them with some ink and acrylic paint. That made a mess. I tried to clean it up by rubbing it off again with a scourer. To my delight, underneath the grey surface there was colour. I loved the red that shone fiercely from underneath. It seemed to be just right in expressing my relationship to the things I had photographed on that very early and hazy spring day.

I took a photo of this new image and chose a detail to enlarge. That’s how the image on the right side was created.

I am using it in the invitation for my second exhibition in Germany. This exhibition came about because my sister is associated with the Centre where it will be held.

The opening is on Easter, together with my sister’s 60th birthday party. Our family will be there, as well as her friends—old and new connections, to celebrate our common ground — ‘our wild and precious lives’ (a line from Mary Oliver) and our shared history.

Letting go, letting flow

It was a hot summer here on the North Coast of NSW. Day after day the sun shone bright. I spent a large part of each day sitting on the couch under the fan, windows wide open— to catch every breeze. It was most tolerable.

It ended up being a perfect summer to stay indoors and complete a collection of short memoir pieces that I had started many years ago. Every morning I sat with my laptop, engrossed for hours… until I’d suddenly notice that my body was stiff and that I felt spent. That was then enough for the day.

Last night I read in ‘Upstream’ by Mary Oliver, ‘The labour of writing poems, of working with thought and emotion in the encasement (or is it wings?) of language is strange to nature, for we are first of all creatures of motion.’

Not that I am a poet or write all that much but the little I do, feels just like, ‘the encasement of language’…. and the wings. It seems to me the most restrictive and the most soaring thing to be engaged in.

I was going well for weeks, looking forward to my place on the couch… until I hit the road block of resistance and the boulder of reluctance. I got around them by sensing their size and shape. I saw that a part of me did not want to finish this writing project. The memoir writing desire had been with me for so long—for more than twenty years. At times it had been my light beam, my comfy blanket, imagined assurance of better things to come and had given me some reassurance of permanence… even a sense of existence. I had written copious notes, collected words, photos, bits of research held in various folders and boxes labelled ‘memoir’. In all things memoir I was a hoarder and very attached to my bits and pieces. Who was I going to be without my ‘stuff’. Sensing that attachment, it dissolved and the track was clear again.

My impulse and intentions for writing these stories has changed over the years. At first, my short stories were a way to assuage homesickness—to remember what had passed and to maintain connections to the place I came from. When I continued them many years later, I wrote to understand causes and conditions for painful emotions and a troubled inner life. I believed that if I could write about the past I’d understand it and maybe, just maybe, it would transform into precious matter. Like in the fairly tale, Rumpelstiltskin, where the maiden was asked to spin straw into gold—something as common as straw into something precious—the ancient desire for alchemy.

Well, some alchemy has taken place because the writing process itself is different now. It is not a means to an end but rather an activity that I am discovering in myself. Words arise, they flow this way and that, making all sorts of connections. They like exploring new combinations and little byways. They seem like a heart making new arteries. In this process my material is being shaped and re-shaped all the time. Sometimes too much and the mess gets to me. Sometimes I would like it if the words and ideas behaved like soldiers that I could command to the finish line.

I am not quite there yet. Patience. Soon though. I have emptied most of my folders into the recycle bin. Ready to be with the living in this present day—until the old urge to remember and tell my story tugs at me again.